9 Habits Of A True Gentleman That Make Women

In a world filled with late-night
booty calls, infidelity and a general
“hit it and split it” mentality, it’s
easy to become jaded by today’s
dating scene.
As women, we brace ourselves for
the worst, proceeding with extreme
caution during the first few months,
for fear of falling victim to the
aforementioned debauchery in which
so many men partake.
It’s a welcome relief, then, when we
stumble upon those few true
gentlemen. They exude chivalry with
even their smallest actions, and
remind us that there are still good
ones out there.
It doesn’t take a grand gesture or
costly display of affection to win a
girl over. Often, it just takes a little
sincerity and display of genuine
romantic interest.
Despite popular opinion, chivalry is
not dead — here are 9 everyday
gestures of men that prove it:
1. Opening doors
A guy who takes the time to come
around and open the car door for
you is a keeper, not to mention a
commodity this winter.
With certain states getting up to
five inches of snow an hour, do you
want to be left standing outside in a
blizzard while your date gets nice
and toasty in the driver’s seat?
Recognize and appreciate a guy who
puts your comfort and well-being
first, even if it’s just for a few extra
seconds.
2. Saving the last bite of food
They say the way to a man’s heart is
through his stomach. So, when he
saves the last bite for you, it’s
basically him saying he likes you
more than whatever meal is in front
of him. Which, for the record, is a
lot.
3. Spending time with your family
A guy who shows an interest in your
baby photos, coaches your little
brother on how to throw a football
and compliments your mother’s
cooking is a guy who’s in it for the
long haul. These are small gestures,
but they speak volumes about his
intentions.
4. Suffering through a girly movie
When a man volunteers to endure a
girly show or movie because he
knows you’ll enjoy it, he earns major
bonus points. (Even more if he does
so without complaining or expecting
something in return.)
5. Sending flowers
I’m not talking about the $100
bouquet you get on Valentine’s Day.
I’m talking about the grocery store
assortment he picked up on a
random Tuesday while thinking of
you. There’s just something about
unexpected flowers that makes a girl
smile.
6. Walking on the outside of the
sidewalk
The first time someone does this,
you will probably be confused. But
then you’ll start to question how
come other men in your life have
never been concerned about
positioning themselves in such a way
that you’d be protected should
curbside tragedy strike.
It’s not a must, but it’s certainly
nice to have.
7. Kissing your forehead
Sure, if you’re hoping to date
someone and he does this, it can be
a dreaded sign of sibling-like
affection.
But, if you’re in a long-term
relationship and your guy does this,
it’s a small gesture that can make
you feel adored.
8. Filling up your gas tank
Much like walking on the outside of
a sidewalk, this gesture will
probably surprise you the first time
it’s performed.
It’s indicative of a man who was
raised right and is generally
courteous, which is always a
welcome surprise.
9. Putting your jacket on
Women are fully capable of putting
their own jackets on, but it’s not a
question of ability. It’s gentlemanly
and kind for someone to hold out
your jacket for you or offer you theirs
when it’s cold.
These are little ways men show they
care, the same way women have
instincts to nurture and protect
loved ones.
Chivalry is not dead; men can be
everyday knights in shining armor.
You just have to learn to spot the
subtle, more meaningful gestures.