How I Intentionally Played A Fast Game On A Lady

(A Nairaland member ) I met this lady on a social app. She
friend-zoned me for some 3 months
though I made her realize my
intention.
She keeps disturbing me with
lengthy chats. She can chat for 24
hours. And that alone was getting
on my nerves, that I started
snubbing her on chat. I only
respond once in a while.
I think she noticed it, she changed
her tactics and started
flirting..talking dirty and sending
me funny pictures of her.
I took it as an invitation, so I
brought up the issue of dating
again. She said we should meet and
discuss it.
We set a date for the date. In the
morning of the set date, on whatsap
she told me she is coming with a
friend of her. I thought she feared
for her security and was trying to
play safe...I agreed they should
come together.
We went to Cumbaland (Indian
restaurant)...chop all the
choppables (Chop my money). We
still continued the discussion, she
ended up not giving me any
tangible answer.
2 weeks later, she said the weekend
will be boring for her, she will be
home alone, she said she wants to
come to my house. Chaii my head
bounced. I was like chaii...this is
the opportunity.... On the Saturday
morning when I went out to pick her
at the bus stop close to my house, I
saw a lady beside her, I thought the
lady was just a passerby...to found
out she was the same friend she
brought on the first day (her
makeup confused me). They came, I
ran my generator for 8 ours they
spent with me glued to my DSTV
watching telemondo/MTV. She
wouldnt even talk to me.
I later invited her to my inner room
where I made my move, she refused
and started cursing. So I dont want
it to turn to a rape scenario, I let
her go.
Later on whatsap, I asked why she
keeps bringing her friend, she said
she cant go anywhere without her.
I said OK...This bad thought just
came to my mind. I knew I had
nothing to loose again. I have spent
already (thats a loss on its own).
Nothing can be worse.
So I intentionally invited her over to
my house this time...as usual she
brought her friend which was part of
my plan.
When opportunity presented itself, I
collected her friends number. I took
a risk, I told her not to tell my girl.
To my dismay she cooperated with
me, I pinged her on whatsap, she
responded and we started flowing
just neutrally.
The next time we agreed to go to
the beach. I was very surprised to
see this girl dressed sexily, even
over dressed more than my girl. My
eyes stayed glued on her that my
girl nearly caught me. May be she
did, may be not.
In the night I buzzed her and I told
her how sexy she was that day. I
told her I felt like kissing and
foundling her that day.
She said "you should have done it
in front of your girl" jokingly.
I said "Do you know my girl doesnt
stop us", she said "Hmmmm"
Shockingly she said "I know there is
nothing between you guys"
I was shocked. So my girl told her
friend she had nothing for me.
I told the lady, why is she doing this
to me? She hasnt given me any
answer and when I make any move,
she bark like dog. What does she
want, shes confusing me....
In short, na so her friend agreed to
come to my house alone ooo. It was
on a rainy Saturday. She barely
enters my house when we started
the "You know what " (close your
eyes).
I was at my office one day when I
saw pings...my girl started
blasting...
Why are men like this?
You are a dog
You are not different from others..
Men will always be men ...blah blah
blah..
So if u want to date someone, its my
friend that you think its right for
you to date. You cheated with my
friend.
I said "Madam, Let me ask you a
question".
"Were we dating?"
She said "No"
I said "So whats your definition of
cheating?"
She said "but u have been
disturbing me for a while now"
I said "For a while? ooh and you are
proud of that? And have you given
me any tangible answer?"
She said "why are you impatient?"
I just told her to get a lawyer...she
cursed and changed DP to funny
images about guys...U know what
they do na...
I found out that she read her
friends whatsap chat and got to
know we were fckng.
Guys....Am i really at fault?
Did I betray her?